"I don’t hate him. I loved him until I figured out it hurts a lot less to just not care. You don’t expect him to turn up to your sporting match. No disappointments. You don’t expect a call on your birthday; Don’t expect to see him for months. No disappointments. You want us to go make up? Sink a few beers together and a nice family hug? I’ve given him enough hugs and he’s given me enough disappointments.